ORGANIZED GARAGE IDEA
Friday, April 11, 2014
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
TELL THE TRUTH by a child
WHY I WANT TO TELL THE TRUTH by a child
Tell the truth all the time
Come to mom or dad and tell what happened
If you tell the truth you won't get in as much trouble
It is better to tell the truth
Tell the truth all the time
Come to mom or dad and tell what happened
If you tell the truth you won't get in as much trouble
It is better to tell the truth
WE SHOW LOVE BY .....
DAD AND MOM SHOW LOVE BY:
Feeding you
Giving you clothes
Give you a home and a bed
Giving you a slide outside
Building a swimming pool
CHILD SHOWS LOVE BY:
Not yelling at dad and mom
Talking kindly
Doing my jobs
Being respectful
Feeding you
Giving you clothes
Give you a home and a bed
Giving you a slide outside
Building a swimming pool
CHILD SHOWS LOVE BY:
Not yelling at dad and mom
Talking kindly
Doing my jobs
Being respectful
RAD KID COACHING NOTES
RAD KID COACHING NOTES
See behavior as survival
Respond, don't react
Ignore the lie, don't ignore the child
You know what honey, everything is going to be okay. I don't want you to worry.
(Wait a little while)
You know what honey, when you tell me a lie, it really hurts me, it scares me. It makes me feel like you don't trust me. If you don't trust me I can't keep you safe. I want you to know we're okay and everything is going to be alright.
Coaching Session on Sept 9, 2010
I wonder if you are afraid you are going to get sent away again?
Come tell me if you feel afraid that you'll be sent away.
Its going to feel like Mommy is never going to come. Let's work on that to know that Mommy is always going to come back.
You're safe. Is everything ok?
Do you feel like I'm going to leave you?
Provide a secure base
Hey bud, why don't you come sit by me?
Pat him on the back and say, "You're going to be OK."
All this feels like a lot for me. I need to take a few minutes to think.
Don't repeat decisions over and over.
Let him scream.
If he's throwing things, put words to it.
"If feels like when ............. it's never going to come back."
DO REPAIR WORK:
I'm sorry we let you go to Vista.
I'm sorry I pulled back for a year.
It has to be so hard to feel like we mess up then we won't be loveable.
See behavior as survival
Respond, don't react
Ignore the lie, don't ignore the child
You know what honey, everything is going to be okay. I don't want you to worry.
(Wait a little while)
You know what honey, when you tell me a lie, it really hurts me, it scares me. It makes me feel like you don't trust me. If you don't trust me I can't keep you safe. I want you to know we're okay and everything is going to be alright.
Coaching Session on Sept 9, 2010
I wonder if you are afraid you are going to get sent away again?
Come tell me if you feel afraid that you'll be sent away.
Its going to feel like Mommy is never going to come. Let's work on that to know that Mommy is always going to come back.
You're safe. Is everything ok?
Do you feel like I'm going to leave you?
Provide a secure base
Hey bud, why don't you come sit by me?
Pat him on the back and say, "You're going to be OK."
All this feels like a lot for me. I need to take a few minutes to think.
Don't repeat decisions over and over.
Let him scream.
If he's throwing things, put words to it.
"If feels like when ............. it's never going to come back."
DO REPAIR WORK:
I'm sorry we let you go to Vista.
I'm sorry I pulled back for a year.
It has to be so hard to feel like we mess up then we won't be loveable.
Monday, February 11, 2013
PLAN OF SALVATION
PLAN OF SALVATION
I made a visual for teaching the Plan of Salvation in Family Home Evening many years ago and found a master for it in Google Images and wanted to link it here.
Print the picture file on cardstock. Color all as you wish. Cut out the row of pictures along the bottom of the page. Laminate the bordered diagram and the cut out "pieces." Use sticky back velcro on the chart and the pieces and add the pieces as you teach.
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